tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post3056746012014207167..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: Re-Visiting Ashley MadisonKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-137644357169716022014-04-19T10:36:16.330-07:002014-04-19T10:36:16.330-07:00Meow.
Came across this older blog post on Ashley ...Meow.<br /><br />Came across this older blog post on Ashley Madison. About thoroughly reading and commenting on something in a woman's profile, so many woman have absolutely nothing in their profile - no text, no check boxes, no nothing. Talk about a blind date!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-58518034007386177352012-04-15T11:25:51.494-07:002012-04-15T11:25:51.494-07:00Another BIG peeve is the women who send a collect ...Another BIG peeve is the women who send a collect message, I reply, and then .... NOTHING.Benhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07999460053230027774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-51971790517427015032012-04-14T08:44:23.142-07:002012-04-14T08:44:23.142-07:00What if you're an asshole or a dipsh*t? Does ...What if you're an asshole or a dipsh*t? Does being yourself work in that case? :)Ryan Beaumonthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00852223091640759071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-30450242436179028972012-04-06T21:31:25.427-07:002012-04-06T21:31:25.427-07:00Anon. Once again, you don't know what you'...Anon. Once again, you don't know what you're talking about, but your comment was cute and witty.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-38683065392750518822012-04-06T21:26:15.371-07:002012-04-06T21:26:15.371-07:00Wow. Cheatin' on the guy you're cheatin...Wow. Cheatin' on the guy you're cheatin' on your husband with...does that make it <i>cheating squared</i>, or <i>cheating twice-removed</i>?<br /><br />Ohhh fidelity, you're such a fickle mistress. Oops, poor choice of words, eh?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-59742616780122375682012-04-06T07:58:06.482-07:002012-04-06T07:58:06.482-07:00notslowingat50- You're right. Did I mention t...notslowingat50- You're right. Did I mention that it's harder for men than for women? Keep at it. As Liam commented, things don't usually go well, but when they do, they are great. ;-)<br /><br />Kitty - You are definitely NOT alone! Thanks for your ongoing support and comments. You're the best!<br /><br />Liam - I *loved* your comment! great advice. You have certainly added some good advice to mine. The part about a profile photo is important. I have been flabbergasted by the profiles that have no photo, no boxes checked, and no written comments - just the username, age, attached or single, city, etc. Those guys have to be kidding. Why would <i>anyone</i> ever find that intriguing?<br /><br />If there's someone out there who has had success for that approach and wants to make the case for it, by all means, please comment. I'd love to hear it.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-58974374893214555132012-04-06T05:23:14.003-07:002012-04-06T05:23:14.003-07:00Yep. That's the approach that's worked for...Yep. That's the approach that's worked for me, give or take a few details.<br /><br />Being a bit slow, it took me a while to figure this stuff out. Well, it took time and careful reading of blogs like yours and the departed Riff's. But eventually I understood that after the first day or so on AM, women realize that they have to weed vigorously and I have very limited opportunities to avoid being weeded.<br /><br />Time - 0 to 5 seconds: headline and public photo thumbnail. As you say, the headline better be witty or engaging or something special and the thumbnail photo, too, or I'm a weed.<br /><br />Time 5 to 30 seconds: Not a weed yet? The profile better be witty and engaging and good lord not check-boxed.<br /><br />Time - post 30 seconds: *MORE* witty and engaging (and spell-checked). As you say, play off of her profile - or - if she doesn't provide much to play off of, well hell, make stuff up and respond to that.<br /><br />Eventually, about 98% of these pitches go nowhere, but the ones that go somewhere are unbelievable.Liamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14857903436985458595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-19412976954060474162012-04-06T03:08:24.911-07:002012-04-06T03:08:24.911-07:00This is a great post on so many levels. 1st I am s...This is a great post on so many levels. 1st I am sorry about you being perturbed at JJ but it is good to see that even the most seemingly perfect couples have their down days. Second, I agree with your pet peeves AND your tips. Those initial emails along with persistence are what get the meeting with Naughty Kitty. My latest, T-Bone fell into it. He played dumb on AM and kept emailing me for help navigating the site. It turns out he is one of those guys that is better in person. I am also glad to see that i am not the only prowler out there that comes and goes on AM. Sometimes I feel like it makes me look wishy washy. So glad I am not alone. Have a great weekend Kat!Naughty Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17600100832813784579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-3066728055268466302012-04-05T20:50:34.242-07:002012-04-05T20:50:34.242-07:00My AM pet peeve is that 90% of the time all I get ...My AM pet peeve is that 90% of the time all I get is a key request in response to a nicely crafted polite introduction message (IF I get any response at all). <br /><br />I try to do much of what you describe, but many women don't put enough information in the profile to try to figure out something that will catch their attention. Seriously, all the checkbox responses start to blur together after a while.notslowingat50noreply@blogger.com