tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post4642288051011143724..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: Nice-Guys are *NOT* AttractiveKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-57848399864210052432011-02-01T07:26:01.594-08:002011-02-01T07:26:01.594-08:00This line, "Take the attitude that she needs ...This line, "Take the attitude that she needs to prove her self to you", does make it sound like I am suggesting being a jerk. Like Mediocrity said it is a slippery slope. The goal is to show you're fun, but at the same time comfortable and secure in your own skin.<br /><br />The tendency of the nice guy is to fall all over himself trying to please, to jump at every chance he can to do something for the woman he's attracted to. The key is to be confident and playful *without* falling into the nice-guy trap.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-71605584413688972432011-02-01T00:38:38.405-08:002011-02-01T00:38:38.405-08:00Its a slippery slope. While being too nice is a p...Its a slippery slope. While being too nice is a potential turn off, so is being too unavailable. I love some mystery but the guy has got show his desire, that I am more than worthy of his time. Acting like he's doing me a favor by talking to me isn't going to get me going. But being too, "Ooooh you are so pretty I will do whatever you want whenever you want and hold your hand," is extremely unattractive as well. If a man can't find the right balance, then he won't have a chance at getting into these panties.Mediocrityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10239797652892856585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-81927576197098589202011-01-25T17:08:54.424-08:002011-01-25T17:08:54.424-08:00I think most of Dauntless' logic is impeccable...I think most of Dauntless' logic is impeccable, and I agree with most of this post, but not all. I just can't agree that you shouldn't let your Nice Guy show when you meet a woman. Oh, we *love* a bad boy, but TOO bad is scary. We've got to see a little nice guy potential in there.<br /><br />Just like guys want a woman who is a little bit virgin mom and a little bit whore (ok, maybe a LOT whore), women want a man who is *both a nice guy and a bad boy.<br /><br />The attitude and behavior you describe in the last paragraph just sounds like a jerk to me. Now that I've said that, though, I realize I've been chatting with someone recently who has not been answering many questions, and taking a "take it or leave it" attitude. Hmmm....he *does* intrigue me.<br /><br />Dang, I hate it when Dauntless is right.....Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.com