tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post575395901226341765..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: Is Any Sex Better Than No Sex?Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-62722763867459009372014-07-19T16:23:18.685-07:002014-07-19T16:23:18.685-07:00http://youtu.be/-77j31TuStA?list=UUy02XoXf7v4Xixb8...http://youtu.be/-77j31TuStA?list=UUy02XoXf7v4Xixb8WGBlDXwAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-48596959290227919002014-07-19T13:22:15.494-07:002014-07-19T13:22:15.494-07:00McKPR, Aunt Clara, and Sassy - Nice to know I'...McKPR, Aunt Clara, and Sassy - Nice to know I'm not alone. I find it strange that this issue is usually the other way around. I's usually the man whining because his wife isn't interested in sex or just gives "duty sex." Oh well....<br /><br />Lola and Jf - Are you kidding? Not only have I offered, but I've begged! Bring in another woman, (two if you want), bring in another man and you can watch (or join in), join a swinging group, watch dirty movies together, watch instructional videos together, read erotica together, go watch strippers together....I have suggested just about everything I can but he always says no. Why? "Because that would be wrong."Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-61852108991605372592014-07-19T06:40:02.129-07:002014-07-19T06:40:02.129-07:00Another powerful post... I have pondered this ques...Another powerful post... I have pondered this question at length... no sex or bad sex? After 15 years of no sex with Hubby, that sent me out into the wild world where I never wanted to be again, I'm going to say "bad sex." At least there is a chance then... but it is a close call. Hoping for better for us all! Same sassy girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09166948965951015623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-30007457549245716822014-07-19T05:09:04.711-07:002014-07-19T05:09:04.711-07:00Hubby's seeing you be ravished by another man ...<i> Hubby's seeing you be ravished by another man might restore some wild emotions that are under the surface.</i><br /><br />Yes!!!JFBreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992585455828870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-42252713830397177572014-07-19T04:50:57.561-07:002014-07-19T04:50:57.561-07:00Hey Kat,
I feel for you, I really do. Now, I don&...Hey Kat,<br />I feel for you, I really do. Now, I don't remember with the conversations that you've had, but did you ever suggest bringing another lover into the bed. Hubby's seeing you be ravished by another man might restore some wild emotions that are under the surface. Plus, it could be fun for you. . . <br />Just a thought.<br />HHLolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05167452380561174136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-45175233078281283542014-07-19T04:17:43.125-07:002014-07-19T04:17:43.125-07:00I also could have written this. Last night my hus...I also could have written this. Last night my husband said "I'm going to butter your muffin." That was the sum total of foreplay. Then, afterwards, it took longer for me to clean myself up than the actual act of sex. <br /><br />Like you I've tried to spice things up, try different things, but it always goes back to the same old position and routine. <br /><br />He doesn't kiss my anymore either and I really miss that.Aunt Claranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-12404819809788520292014-07-18T23:19:10.228-07:002014-07-18T23:19:10.228-07:00I could have written this. Seriously. Granted, for...I could have written this. Seriously. Granted, for the last several years, 12 to be exact, dh has rebuffed me, refused me, been repulsed by me (his words. his recent words) time and time again. I took a lover two years ago and to experience mutual lust, desire, passion and intimacy is beyond anything I every expected, especially this late in life. It's a gift. I want this all of the time so when dh finally "agrees" to have sex with me, at the urging of our marriage counselor, is it any wonder I *need* lube or can't muster up the expected "oh thank you hubby, for finally fucking me after 6 weeks" in an genuinely enthusiastic manner? What does it mean when I am more satisfied, fulfilled and sated in the very rare moments in real life I have with my long distance lover, hell even in our virtual moments, than the every 6-weeks 15-minute physical release with dh? Like you, I love my husband, I do. But I want more. ~McKPRnoreply@blogger.com