tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post7328075265277892333..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: Random Thoughts on a Sunday AfternoonKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-71820026983731761152014-08-21T09:43:57.486-07:002014-08-21T09:43:57.486-07:00When I was still blogging, Veronica and I did an o...When I was still blogging, Veronica and I did an occasional/sometimes weekly Q&A about open marriage- and swinging-related issues that we called "Swing Shift." It was actually pretty popular and it wouldn't surprise me if the same was true for you. There are always people who are just curious and others who have specific questions or concerns that they need advice about. We had some friends/mentors who helped us avoid potential pitfalls when we first opened our marriage and that Q&A series was our way of paying it forward with our lessons learned.Hubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-39407537029959674982014-08-17T18:30:47.940-07:002014-08-17T18:30:47.940-07:00Thanks for putting us on your blog role, Kat. ANd ...Thanks for putting us on your blog role, Kat. ANd here's question / gripe that maybe you can comment on:<br /><br />Mistress does the AM thing, but with a certain amount of frustration. Recently there was some younger guy (purportedly 39 to her 50) who was all hot and heavy in trying to get her to meet. She had to tell him to cool the text messages until they verified that there really was a spark. After several weeks of this they finally found a time when they could meet for drinks at the end of the work day. But, surprise, surprise, the guy cancels a few hours ahead of the "meet", without much explanation.<br />Of course, he says let's try again, but Mistress put him in the "dead" file.<br /><br />My theory is that some married guys play this game just to see if they can get someone to say they will meet, and then panic and cancel. Sort of a catch and release phenomenon. <br /><br />Is this something you've seen? Do you agree that Mistress should blow this guy of and move on to the next prospect?<br /><br />MickMick Collinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12319002921976293295noreply@blogger.com