tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post8163293064246962184..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: The Hotel Room (Part 2 of 2)Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-91077703632678070192012-09-02T08:58:35.307-07:002012-09-02T08:58:35.307-07:00Kat, I'm just wondering what the dynamic here ...Kat, I'm just wondering what the dynamic here is. Please don't take this as criticism, I just don't understand the dynamic and would like to understand more.<br /><br />>I used to have exclusive access <br />>to my business accounts<br /><br />Are you in business together with your husband?<br /><br />Not sure why any person, even a spouse, would be able to monitor & control another person's business accounts.<br /><br />Was there some kind of ultimatum where he demanded to be able to see everything?<br /><br />>Hubby now manages and monitors <br />>all of the bank accounts on a <br />>daily basis. <br /><br />All of the accounts?<br /><br />You don't have a personal bank account of your own? <br /><br />Even some online thingy like an ING Driect account that is done totally online, no statements mailed, cash is handled at ATMs using a card with no name on it?<br /><br />>He also knows exactly how much <br />>cash I have at all times and he <br />>doles out what I need.<br /><br />How do you find it having to us your spouse as an ATM that tracks your cash balance and queries you before you get your money?<br /><br />Do you find this sort of controlling behavior a turn-on in some sort of BDSM power-exchange way?<br /><br />Or do you find it a turn-off & a strain on your relationship.<br /><br />I'm asking because I quite simply don't understand. I personally could never behave this way toward any woman of mine, spouse, lover, or other other. I won't go into the reasons why, but I wouldn't even think of puring my time & energy into this sort of thing.<br /><br />I'd also be interested in what the reward is for you in acquiescing to this, and how you feel about this? Does it appear insecure to you?<br /><br />Throughfarenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-16380617411455605372012-08-16T06:24:52.726-07:002012-08-16T06:24:52.726-07:00I've had great luck with the Walmart Money Car...I've had great luck with the Walmart Money Card, using it at Days Inn, Red Roof, and Motel 6. OK I admit -- not the most glamorous of establishments, BUT my lovers all encourage me to go thrifty so we can afford to do it more often. I use the Money Card to make reservations online (I like the peace of mind knowing that I have a room reserved, and I prefer a king bed), and when I check in I make sure I have enough of a balance on the card so I can leave the keys in the room and just leave on checkout, whether I've only been there two hours or chose instead to "entertain" the next morning as well. Yes, there are precautions you need to take with the Moneycard -- I have to keep the card itself hidden from my spouse and she is quite attentive to the household finances, and I do use my office as the mailing address. Aside from the original mailing of the card, I have received almost no other mailings at work as all the statements are done online. Yes, there's a $3 charge every time you load money on the card, but I guess that's the price you pay for prowling. AND I've even used the card to order up porn in the room!Cheating Foolnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-10706330123107385652012-08-15T11:20:52.735-07:002012-08-15T11:20:52.735-07:00I think you're mistaken. I'll bet you loo...I think you're mistaken. I'll bet you look extremely sexy and alluring when you're running around naked, looking for your bra!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-21359421719468440752012-08-15T07:52:07.890-07:002012-08-15T07:52:07.890-07:00I always bring my own soap, shampoo and conditione...I always bring my own soap, shampoo and conditioner to shower with afterwards. Don't use the hotel stuff, spouses (especially wives) may notice the different smell. <br /><br />Maikey-MikeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-54501423980445557672012-08-14T14:02:01.293-07:002012-08-14T14:02:01.293-07:00This is great- I almost got nailed with the securi...This is great- I almost got nailed with the security deposit thing and I was a nervous wreck until it disappeared from the online statement. I only use gift card now and they work fine. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com