tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post8441933560227500209..comments2023-11-03T04:19:29.065-07:00Comments on Prowling with Kat: The Eye DoctorKathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-2775249933294625162012-05-04T09:46:58.385-07:002012-05-04T09:46:58.385-07:00" It's also not very nice that I'm tr..." It's also not very nice that I'm treated like a child. I can't even got to the eye doctor alone."<br /><br />It's a tricky and unpleasant situation, granted. A lot of affair literature suggests that betrayed spouses need total transparency from the cheating spouse to establish trust again, and it seems that your husband is forcibly getting that by babying you. <br /><br />You feel insulted that he watches you like a hawk. You cheat which means that he has no real reason to trust you...which gives him the basis for the hawk behavior. But you cheat because of a huge issue in the marriage. Around and around it goes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-64070941929071943582012-05-04T09:15:07.180-07:002012-05-04T09:15:07.180-07:00Anon - It's not a sadistic pleasure at all, bu...Anon - It's not a sadistic pleasure at all, but you are right that it wasn't very nice. It's also not very nice that I'm treated like a child. I can't even got to the eye doctor alone. Seriously? That still doesn't make it right.<br /><br />The first paragraph of your comment was correct. I do not want to hurt my husband, but.....<br /><br />...the short answer for you to address your confusion is... I'm not perfect.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-40509453979396641662012-05-04T08:59:56.905-07:002012-05-04T08:59:56.905-07:00Kat,
This post seems oddly inconsistent with the ...Kat,<br /><br />This post seems oddly inconsistent with the woman you revealed to us in "Why I Cheat." Therein, you spoke of your infidelities as a regrettable consequence of a marriage overburdened by sexual incompatibility. You paint yourself understandably as a woman in pain who would prefer not to hurt her spouse if there were a better solution in place. <br /><br />In this entry, you display an almost sadistic pleasure in driving your husband crazy with his suspicion...and then <i>justifying</i> his suspicion by nearly seducing the doctor. <br /><br />I'm confused, Kat.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-8280580190645532022012-05-03T15:57:13.853-07:002012-05-03T15:57:13.853-07:00one of the reasons I adore you blog, is that your ...one of the reasons I adore you blog, is that your dream man and my dream man are the same. I love living vicariously through you ;)<br /><br />Now don't leave us hanging too long, ok?<br />xxPam Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110586882062517489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-23580606717733304882012-05-03T07:43:22.936-07:002012-05-03T07:43:22.936-07:00Max and Clem - Don't worry. The rest will be ...Max and Clem - Don't worry. The rest will be coming soon. <br /><br />Leah - We had a scandal in the town where I live now about a dentist who was groping women, claiming to be giving them massages to relax their jaws. Maybe you should ask your dentist for a massage? ;-)<br /><br />Gertie - Good eye care is very important, you know. I know at least one eye doc I would definitely recommend. And I suspect he makes hotel...uh....house calls.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391347384362000456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-76186622472209520002012-05-03T05:40:02.463-07:002012-05-03T05:40:02.463-07:00Great story and glad the phone call went well. I w...Great story and glad the phone call went well. I was wondering where you would suggest getting my eyes checked, I suddenly feel like my perscription is out of date.Gertiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08561581534126463344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-83675576445017286432012-05-03T05:27:54.139-07:002012-05-03T05:27:54.139-07:00Very fun story. Looking forward to hear how the ph...Very fun story. Looking forward to hear how the phone call went.Clemnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-59767104595531565552012-05-03T01:58:41.485-07:002012-05-03T01:58:41.485-07:00Wow - what a story! My eye doc is short, fat and ...Wow - what a story! My eye doc is short, fat and balding, so I'm not happy when he has to get up close and personal :-(<br /><br />My dentist on the other hand is a different matter! He's well over 6 feet, very toned and athletic looking, looks like Colin Firth for gods sake! I was there just yesterday. He inflicted some pain but I forgave him, as I do each time ;-DLeahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15018387289740848218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2524305586058177527.post-2755185041489781262012-05-02T19:26:24.690-07:002012-05-02T19:26:24.690-07:00Ooh, a cliffhanger. :-) Very interesting, please ...Ooh, a cliffhanger. :-) Very interesting, please continue this ASAP!Maxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02335669036476740866noreply@blogger.com