Santa Baby

You shouldn't be surprised that this is one of my favorite Christmas songs, and no matter how many people record it, the original recorded by Eartha Kitt in 1953 is still the best version ever made.

It's sexy, sultry, playful  - just like me. Maybe that's why I love it.

My favorite lines? "Think of all the fun I've missed; Think of all the fellas that I haven't kissed; Next year I can be just as good....."  This is what I think of whenever someone suggests that I stop prowling. Stop?! But just think of all the fellas I haven't tried yet. Eartha said "kissed," but I know what she really meant.

So Gentlemen, listen to this amazing song, and imagine that your sweet Kat is singing it to you - and you alone.

Mini-Golf Adventure

Last Saturday, I went out on a miniature golf adventure on Saturday with Hubby, my youngest son, Cara, and Beth. It was a gorgeous day and I thought it would be nice to get outside in the sun. As you know, I work a lot, so I don't get out much, and when I do "get out," I'm usually getting in bed.  Either way, there's not much sun involved.

So, we got to the mini-golf place, and all of us were dressed appropriately for mini-golf - except for Cara. I was wearing my lucky tennis shoes (and some other things, of course).  Hubby was wearing golf shorts and a golf shirt from an exclusive golf club in Florida - a clear attempt to try to intimidate the rest of us. (By the way, he took off the knee brace he has been wearing every day because he wanted to look young.) My son was wearing shorts and T-shirt.  Beth was wearing jeans and a casual blouse. We were all good to go.

Cara was wearing a strapless knee-length dress and 4" wedge sandals.

WTF?!

She was gorgeous, of course, with her long blonde hair and the hem of her dress blowing lightly in the breeze and the sun reflecting off her sunglasses and mini-golf putter as she leaned over to address the ball in her oh-so-sweet-girlie-girl way. 

I was watching my son, who wanted to run all over the place, and Hubby - just to make sure his knee didn't go out and force him to tumble down the windmill hill into the faux lake. Hubby was watching Cara, and I'm sure he was praying for wind and for the bodice of that strapless dress to slip just a little more.

I'm sorry I forgot to take a photo.  We could have used it for an HNT.

All that said, we really did have a great time. I hope we do it again soon.  Maybe Cara will wear hot pants and stilettos next time. ;-)

My Husband's Favorite.....

...commercial.

In fact, he likes this commercial so much that he jokes about just sending Carl's Junior a "thank you" donation so they'll keep these steamy commercials coming. LOL.

Okay, I'll admit it. I love it, too. Kate Upton is hot.

10 Things That Really Turn Me On

I was having a conversation with someone recently about things that turn people on, and I found it very interesting how people are so different.  Things that turn on one person  can be a complete turn off for someone else.

So, because this blog is all about, well, me, I thought I'd share with my fellow prowlers the things that really turn me on.  I'm going to stop at 10 because the list could get pretty long.

1. Confidence - This no joke.  Nothing gets me hotter than a confident man. Just about everything else pales next to confidence. I've met some amazingly good looking men who did nothing for me because they were afraid of their own shadow, and I've met some men who others might not consider as attractive who could twist me around their little fingers because of their confidence.
2. Intelligence - You have probably figured out that I have a thing for smart men.  I really do. Not only does intelligence usually mean a man is quite creative in bed, but it's intriguing.  It's the signal to me that there is really something interesting to discover, both in and out of bed. Heck, I've been chatting with one guy for almost two weeks who won't even tell me his name, but he's smart and witty and I'm dying to know more (Dear Mr. No-Name, please don't think this means I'll let this go on forever without a name).
3. A Sexy Voice - Almost 17 years ago, I met a man online with the sexiest voice I've ever heard in my life.  We had incredible phone sex, as you might imagine (yes, a phone sex post is coming). We have never met in person and our relationship has developed into a friendship, but I still get wet whenever I hear his voice. My, my. my!  I also can't resist a sexy voice whispering sweet nothings in the dark.
4. Domination - I'm not just talking about BDSM here (although I like a little D/s role play from time to time), but I get seriously turned on by a man who takes charge. Here's the deal.  I'm in control in most areas of my life.  I really need a man to be a man.  That said, I can be up for a little role reversal, too, but start off by taking charge.
5. Nipple play - OMG! I'm one of those very fortunate women whose nipples are so sensitive that she can almost cum from nipple play alone, yet many of you guys neglect that. Our tits aren't just for you, ya know.
6. Hair Pulling - Maybe this is related to the domination thing.  I don't know. I do know, however, that I love it.  I discovered this by accident when a lover grabbed me by the hair 20 years ago.  What a pleasant surprise! Gentlemen, here's a tip for you on hair pulling - grab firmly close to the scalp.  It gives you more control and that is the turn on. Jerking it by the edges is just annoying and it leaves bruises.
7. Kissing - I don't mean a little kissing. I'm talking about those hot, deep, wet kisses that last three days. No matter how stressed, tired, or preoccupied I am, some deep kissing (with a dominant, confident man who grabs me by the hair on the back of the head at the same time) always gets me in the mood.
8. Passion/Desire -  As a young woman, I used to think that being turned on led to passion and desire, but I have changed my mind on that.  Those of you who have experienced a long term relationship with someone who isn't interested in sex at all know how much of turn on it for someone to want you. I guess it's easier to recognize when you've lost it, but being with a man who actually wants sex, with me, is hot. And when he shows that by being enthusiastic and passionate in bed....wow!
9. Generosity - Some guys just want to get what they want and be done with it.  Of course, these men are idiots (yes, you can quote me on that) because they fail to understand that the more they please their partner, the more pleasure they will get. A man who makes sure that I am enjoying our time together turns me on, and makes me want to go out of my way to please him. It's quite simple.
10. Experimentation - I like to try and learn new things.  I'm not saying that plain old, sweet missionary style can't be great (because it really can), but willingness to try something new and different is a big turn on. That brings us right back to confidence, doesn't it? If you're not confident enough to get a little crazy and experiment a bit, how will you ever know what really turns you on?

Now, if you recognize a lot of the items on this list from 13 Reasons Why J Was the Best Ever, you have been paying attention.  Kudos to you!

You may wonder why some things are missing from the list like a nice, big, hard cock. Try reading Does Size Matter? and you'll have your answer.

Yes, my list of 10 Things That Really Turn Me Off is coming soon.