Did that clear it up for ya? No? Then I suppose I should explain further.
First, I can say with complete honesty that I have had great sex with men with very small penises (one each, of course). I've also had great sex with men with ED, who couldn't get hard. In those cases, it's all about creativity. Those men who know how to compensate for their shortcomings, pardon the pun, have left me quite satisfied and wanting more.
On the other hand, I've also been with men with nice large cocks who really didn't know what to do with them, other than the obvious, of course. A quickie wham-bam-thankyouma'am session with a large dick is not much fun, and definitely far inferior to a nice long session with a creative and passionate man with a little one.
Are you confused? Stay with me....
First of all, I have to admit that I like to be filled by a large hard cock (or two, or three) as much as the next gal, but it's really about confidence, passion and creativity. Sadly, many men who have been blessed with large cocks have never had to develop their other skills in bed, so they rely on their natural "gift" to get what they want and they assume that women will keep coming back just for that. Well, maybe we will, for a while. Eventually, though, that gets boring and we want more. If Mr. Big Dick can't give us more, our minds start to wander, followed by the rest of the body in short order. He's got confidence, but his lack of creativity eventually leaves him playing solo.
Mr. Little Dick, though, knows he has to develop some other talents and skills. He learns how to use his tongue. He experiments with his fingers and hands (fisting, anyone?), and he uses sex toys to augment his own equipment - all for the pleasure of his partner, knowing that if she gets more pleasure, he does, too. He tries lots of different positions to get the most leverage and benefit from the length and girth he does have. The bad news is that, even though these guys have the creativity thing locked, they may not get to share it very often because they lack confidence.
And then there's passion. Passion is all about desire, and showing your partner that you desire her. Some men are very good at this. Others, not so much. And no, simply expressing a desire to fuck her does not communicate passion. I'll be writing more on passion later, but it's very important. Of the reasons married women give for cheating, their need for passion is almost always at the top of the list.
Importantly, the development of confidence, creativity, and passion have nothing to do with the size of your dick. So, whether you are big or small, you have a chance to become a great lover. The only question is, "Will you?"
Confidence, and a promise of passion, will get a woman into your bed. Creativity and passion will keep her there.
Wait.....in those two little equations (Confidence + passion = sex; Creativity + passion = more sex) I didn't even mention size.