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Sunday, February 10, 2013

February's Sex Blog Chain - Love

February is the month of love, so of course that's the topic for this month's Sex Blog Chain.Our participating bloggers have quite a variety for you this month.

Ryan Beaumont - I Want to Thank You for Giving Me the Best Day - Ryan wins the award for "real life love" this month with his post that highlights the difference between falling in love and real love between two committed partners. His story really moved me.

Advizor - Honored  - The photo alone makes this one worth visiting. However, beyond that, it's quite a moving post.

Same Sassy Girl - The Love Chat - Both spicy and sweet. Sassy gives you a glimpse of an "I love you" chat with Phil. These two sure do love taking photos!

Ponyboy - Taking Her for Granted - Ponyboy discusses what a marriage looks like when the couple takes each her for granted, and how that can be avoided.

Kat - Love and Living Deliberately - I wrote about living life fully sand sucking all the marrow out of life.  No, that is not a euphemism for giving head. Sorry.

Remember, please take the time to comment as you read these posts and consider following these bloggers if you don't already.  If you do, share them with your friends. We *love* being passed around. ;-)

Also, stop by the Sex Blog Chain page to read the posts from previous months.  Some are pretty hot and naughty, but all are worth reading.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

October Sex Blog Chain - Hot Sex with the Spouse

Just because some of us prowl doesn't mean that we can't have hot sex with the spouse, too. This month's Sex Blog Chain posts are proof that sometimes the fire at home can burn pretty hot.

Up on Cripple Creek, She Sends Me is Ryan Beaumont's contribution to the Chain this month. I smiled at the reference to Shannon being wet in the water (Huh? Don't worry, you'll get it) and I chuckled when the police arrived. Ok, if that doesn't get you to read this post, nothing will.  You'll enjoy it, as we always enjoy Ryan's great stories.

Advizor shares Hot Sex with us this month, too.  Here's the little blurb he provided as a tease: "Missionary is great. 69 is fantastic. Doggie style makes me climax the fastest, but watching her above me as she leans back and applies her vibrator to her clit as I fuck her from below is tough to beat. " That's a tease?  Imagine what must be in the story!

How about some hot sex at a beach house during a family vacation? That's what Max tells us about in his post Beach House. There is nothing like vacation sex, is there?

Since Ponyboy is our resident faithful husband, I've been looking forward to his contribution to this topic all month! I wasn't disappointed. He shares NFL Widow Reward Follow-Up, a great post that should strike a chord with most of us. I'd say his wife is a pretty lucky gal.

If you've got kids, you might be able to relate to Home for Lunch, one of my stolen hot moments (19 minutes, to be specific) with Hubby, and Vacation Sex, an encounter not nearly as romantic as Max's vacation sex, but just as hot (that's my story and I'm stickin' to it).

Same Sassy Girl doesn't have an entry for us this month, but go read her blog anyway.  You know you should.

Please share these posts with your friends and if you haven't already subscribed to these great blogs, do so now.

And come back on November 10th for our next Sex Blog Chain post.  The topic for November is Sex with a Politician or Public Figure (or public official).  Maybe you'll witness a Monica Lewinsky moment.  Who knows? ;-)





Friday, September 14, 2012

Back to School - September Sex Blog Chain

I know.  I should be punished.  If you're wondering why, you don't know me very well, do you? Hehehe.

Seriously, I was was supposed to have the September Sex Blog Chain post up on Monday, and here it is Friday. I have no good excuse except that my work and home life has just been busier than I can manage this week.  I'm hoping to get a handle on things soon.

But I subscribe to the "better late than never" philosophy, so here you go.....

The topic for this month is Back to School or The One that Got Away.

We'll start with SameSassyGirl and her post about her high school reunion. When I read it, it brought back all the fun feelings related to getting my flirt on.  Very nice, and guaranteed to make you smile.

Ryan Beaumont shared his story of "the one that got away" and combines it with a school story, although it's not technically a back-to-school story.  He's rebel, isn't he? In Good Morning Little School Girl, Can I Come Home with You?, he thoroughly enjoys young Bethany's special talents. You will, too.

Advizor also shared a post with us about his "one that got away." My heart ached for him as I read the story, and I saw much of myself in it.  It's amazing how we are all more alike than different in some respects, isn't it?

Naughty Kitty wrote about a rendezvous with Auditor Guy for her entry, Slumber Party. Before I comment on the post, I have to admit something.  Sometimes I have a hard time reading Kitty's blog because I get stuck staring at that seriously hot picture just below the blog title bar. I actually have to make myself move on sometimes.  I know. I'm weak. As for Auditor Guy....what a gentleman to leave before the kids get up.

Max, from Thoughts of a Mystic Satyr, contributed College Memory, a story about a special evening with his Catholic college girlfriend. While completely different, this story reminded me of Advizor's because of how it glowed with nostalgia. A beautiful memory. A beautiful story.

What Changed Me from a Complete Beta, by Ponyboy, is an interesting piece reflecting on how a relationship with an old girlfriend changed him - for the better, of course.

As for me, my "one that got away" story is My First Fuck Buddy.  I still miss him.

If I missed anyone's story, I am so, so sorry! Please forgive me, and re-send your link. I'll post it ASAP.

As for the rest of you, check out these bloggers and their great blogs. Follow them, subscribe and enjoy!

Now, back to my punishment for being so late with this post.....

Any ideas?

More importantly, any volunteers?




Friday, August 10, 2012

Kinky Sex - August Sex Blog Chain

Ooohhh, goodie goodie! I've been waiting for this month's Chain post for a couple of months. Who doesn't like Kinky Sex?

For those of you who are new or who don't know how this works, several bloggers have submitted links to posts that address this month's topic. It's a virtual cornucopia of kinky sex. As you visit each blog to enjoy the naughtiness, please take some time to look around and read more. If you don't already follow some of these blogs, this would be a good time to start.  Then you can enjoy their kinkiness all month long!

Let's start with Ponyboy, author of Marriage in the Bedroom. He swears that his nickname has nothing to with the pleasure of riding him, although I'm sure his wife might disagree (if she knew anything about his blog). His contribution this month is Pushing Boundaries which explains his thoughts about pushing the sexual boundaries within a marriage. Ponyboy has increasingly become my conscience, so now people can quit saying that I don't have one.

Ryan Beaumont is author of The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad. He apparently couldn't think of a short, smart, pithy title for his blog, so we are forced to remember the long version. His contribution is Paradise By the Dashboard Light, which might give you some idea of where the sexiness takes place.  But there's more....The first story is followed by another - Mama Told Me Not to Come (they are in the same post; the same link will take you to both). Ryan has a great sense of humor and I guarantee you'll smile as you read. (Note to Ryan: Smart prowling men try to avoid the adjective "little" when referring to themselves in a sentence referencing sex. "Little Ryan?" Really?  No worries. You had me at "Hot as Kat on a Hot Giants Chippendale Show.")

Max, author of Thoughts from a Mystic Satyr, offers us Third Orgasm as his kinky contribution. It is an account of an experience he had at a sex club party. Gentleman, you'll wish you were him. I certainly wished I was his partner.

Advizor, from Free Advice is Worth What You Pay for It, asks the age old question, "What is kinky?" and he kindly gives us a scale to finally find out in Kinky Sex - Give Me a Number!!  Take a look. I've done 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, and 20. The only ones that look really kinky to me are 20 and 21. What about you?

Kitty is joining us again this month, too, from My Secret Life. In The Masterpiece and
The Masterpiece, Part 2, she masterfully draws us along a path from innocence to kink. I had to take a break at the double penetration part to...uh..."freshen up." Don't worry. I didn't spoil it for you. There are plenty of other surprises.  This is a pleasurable "must read."

Gym Fun and her partner FBT are joining our Chain for the first time this month. Since it's their first time here, GF has shared a bit about them so we can get to know them better:


"FBT and GF are lovers.  In real life we are soccer coaches, PTA members with careers, kids, pets, and of course spouses. We live over 2000 miles apart.  We met on a business trip and now make time to meet all over North America for passionate, kinky, athletic, primal and creative sex. Our love is like nothing either of us has ever known. We have evolved from friends with benefits and solo prowlers into sexual soulmates who now prowl together. We have no secrets. We have no future and we have no past.   We are in love.  We enjoy each stolen moment we find together.  We supplement and enhance one another's lives.  We write about our encounters anonymously, and share other pictures and things that turn us on. We are Supplemental Toy."

Yes, their blog is called Supplemental Toy (just in case some of you didn't get that; you know who you are). The encounter they have shared with us is Slippery When Wet. It's a story in five parts (5 brief posts):


Strap-on, anyone? Same Sassy Girl, from the blog with the same name, shares Strap On Chat, a chat log of a kinky, hot cyber-encounter involving....you guessed it!  The naughty photo with the post got my attention, too.  Hey JJ, what do you think, Baby?

I'm also including Handcuffs, by G. G was gracious to share this beautiful piece with us as a guest post recently.  If you missed it, you should definitely read it now. G has a way with words. Oh yeah....it's a really steamy and kinky encounter, too.

I thought long and hard about which contributions I would share. I decided on Double Fisting? Yowza! and Trifecta. These are both about one of my favorite afternoons with JJ.

That's it for this month, Prowlers. What do you think? Fisting, strap-ons, sex clubs, threesomes, cybersex, toys, tools, and sex in unusual places. Not bad for our first Kinky Sex round-up.

The Sex Blog Chain topic for next month is Back-to-School or the one that got away/old flame. 

Please spread the word with any bloggers you know who might like to participate.  This isn't a private club.  The more the merrier! If we end up with too many entries for one post, we'll host two Chain posts in a month, so no one should shy away from joining us. The details about the Chain can be found on out Sex Blog Chain page. All someone needs to do to join is send me an email expressing interest and I'll add them to the reminder list that goes out each month.  Then someone will remind me to send out the reminder (thanks, Sassy!) and we'll be good to go.

Past Chain posts:

June - The First (first sex or first extramarital encounter)
July - Outdoor Sex




Monday, June 11, 2012

Sex Blog Chain - The First

This is the first of  monthly Sex Blog Chain posts. It's a great opportunity, Prowlers, for you to hear from a variety of bloggers all commenting on a single topic. As is fitting for our FIRST Chain post, this month's topic is "Firsts."  You can find the list of topics and our archived Chain posts on the Sex Blog Chain page.

Most of our blogger participants this month are sex bloggers, but not all of them are. And not all of them write about infidelity. That's right.  Some write about sex and love within the context of marriage, and I"m grateful for them because if this blog was about sex within the context of marriage, it would be very, very quiet here.

There's a little of everything here - a little sex (well, more than a little sex), a little drama, a little humor, a little sadness, a little love.

As you click on each link to go to a new blog and read the post, please also considering following or subscribing to that blog. Then you don't have to miss any new posts.

Here we go.....

AM Encounter with G - Naughty Kitty shares the story of her first encounter from someone she met on Ashley Madison. I don't want to spoil the story, but there's a condom involved and an accent and.... It's delightful.

About Naughty Kitty (from Kitty herself) - Hi my name is Naughty Kitty and I am an Ashely Madison addict. I signed up for Ashley Madison as a recommendation by a friend who thought it might give me some good writing material. I ended up learning so much more. Over the past several months my desires and needs have changed. I have learned about men, women, relationships, sex, love, fucking...just about everything you can imagine. This is a post from my first Ashley Madison encounter. Enjoy!

Sassy's Past Part 2: Pop Goes My Cherry - Can you guess what this one is about? Sassy Girl shares about her "first time." High school, accidental entry.....nice story.

About Sassy Girl (in her own words) - Call me Sassy.  I heat up old flames!  I’m that girl you were sweet on
in high school, the one you wonder about?  I look like a demure, curvy married lady from Boston with an office job, two cats, a car and a condo, with most of her sex life in her head.  But you’re in for a sexy surprise. My blog is a very SEXY conversation between a man and a woman on Facebook.  Plus you get to see my cleavage!  My first love from high school found me online after 35 years.  He's curious to know how my life turned out, and whether I am the same sassy girl he knew.  He came at me at 100 mph, reminding me of magic moments we shared, trying to convince me to finish what we started as teenagers.  He wants to find out if the chemistry he remembers and the connection we made online exists in the real world, even though we've each been married for years and never strayed.  We entertain each other through illness, death and the daily grind, discovering a lot about life, love, long-distance relationships and SEX!  Will we ever meet face-to-face?
Will we hook up?

Kat's Chain - Are You Ready for the Sex Girls? - Only Ryan Beaumont can tell a story quite like this. He poses an interesting question that made me laugh out loud - What is the proper etiquette for how long one should date a woman who has had your dick in her mouth?


Ryan's bio (which will make you smile as much as his posts):

“I was born a poor black child.”

Sorry, you should never start a bio with a bold-faced lie; I was really born to a middle-class white couple but it was in the deep south.  I am however, eternally infatuated with Steve Martin, his humor and his urbanity (is that a word).  I guess for you Millennials out there I really love Will Ferrell as well.  The stories I talk about are real but in a way Ryan is the character I wish to be so they are interpreted through his voice.
I guess if I had to say I have been affected by certain books I would probably say stuff like the Catcher in the Rye, Huck Finn, Catch 22, and Slaughterhouse Five.  Which basically means I’m a screwed up sarcastic mess.  Probably more than anything I love Ball Four, Jim Bouton’s 60’s behind the scenes look at baseball.  Bouton is my ultimate anti-hero a “thinking man’s jock,” just smart enough to sound like he may be informed on a few things but still bound by his affinity to BBQ, baseball, and chicks!

As for the real me as I say on my blog just “a typical guy who’s circumstances pointed him in the wrong direction for the right reason.”  How’s that for passing the buck!

The First Time - Max, author of Thoughts from a Mystic Satyr, wrote a charming "first time" story that probably resonates with most of us. It took me down memory lane and highlighted how much sex (like life) is so much more about the journey than the destination.

A little about Max - Max has been blogging for over two years now about erotic fantasies and reminiscences, relationships, and connection - both physical and spiritual. He's a sucker for feedback, so please send him thoughts and comments.

My First Time - Ponyboy's story about his first time will make you bust into a big smile at the end. But don't you dare cheat! Read it from the beginning.  You'll know what I mean.

Ponyboy shares a little about himself - I'm a happily married father of two.  I started reading blogs online as an outlet and a resource to see what other married guys like me were going through. As I read more I discovered I enjoyed reading about others and having conversations about various marital and relationship issues. I am an anonymous writer and intend to stay that way.  I don't feel I would have the freedom to write what I want to write if I was publishing with my real name.  So there you go, the honest truth - much like how I write..


My First Fuck Buddy - This is the "first time" story I"m sharing with the Chain today. If you're looking for something a bit more naughty, here's The First Ten Minutes and Two Feet.

About Kat -  Many of you know all about me already, but for those of you who don't.... I love sex and I love men. Yeah, that's about it.

So there you have it, Prowlers. Our first Sex Blog Chain post! Remember, please leave comments for our blogger friends, share this post with your friends, and be sure to follow our participants' blogs.

Bloggers, if you want to participate next month, check out the guidelines here or send me an email. We'd love to have you!

On July 10th, our next Chain post will go live, and the topic is Outdoor/Summer Sex. See you then!

Saturday, May 5, 2012

I Just Have to Share This

I was taking a few minutes to catch up on reading some friends' blogs this morning, and I came across some things that I just have to share with you.

This post from Mr. Dryden on Mindfully Sexual has some amazing photos. If you love beautiful naked women, you must check this one out.

The "Big Tease" award for the week (month? year?) goes to Ryan Beaumont, author of The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad, for the ongoing saga about Sandee.  Will he ever get any? Is she just leading him on...and on...and on? Wait, maybe I should call this "The Most Patient Man of the Millennium Award." Anyway, in Love is the Drug and I Need to Score, he gets so, so close, but we're left with a cliffhanger.  Then, in Can You Take Me High Enough we finally get to the answer of the big question, "Will they or won't they?"

I really enjoyed Ponyboy's post, Drunk Sex, too.  Maybe I liked it because I had a lot of drunk sex when I was in college and it brought back some memories (or are they flashbacks?). But I just like his blog, Marriage in the Bedroom, a lot regardless of the particular post. He writes about married life - the good, the bad, and the ugly. The best part about it is that it's real. It's a great portrait of what early married life with young children is really like.

Naughty Kitty made me laugh with her re-post of Sex Candy Tester on her blog, My Secret Life. I've never tried Altoids as a sexual enhancement tool, but I just may give it a whirl now!

Take a trip through these fun posts this weekend.  I'm sure you'll enjoy them as much as I did.

Is there a blog or post that you really enjoy?  Tell us about it in the comments.  I'll take a look and it might appear in another of my sharing posts.  I love to share the love.  And yes, pimping your own blog is perfectly fine.

Monday, February 13, 2012

Marriage in the Bedroom

There are thousands of blogs out there.  Some are good, and some are not so good. Every now and then I come across a new one that catches my attention.  Marriage in the Bedroom (by Ponyboy) is one of those.

Marriage in the Bedroom is not a sex blog, but sex is a frequent topic.  It is not an infidelity blog, either, but it discusses infidelity.  Okay, I can hear you now, "Kat, if it's not a sex blog or an infidelity blog, why are you recommending it?" That's a fair question.

It's about the marital relationship, and the issues and struggles that married couples face - including sex.  It's well written and it's written by a man who is clearly living day to day in the marital trenches like most of us are.

My favorite posts so far:

A Good Wife is Not Defined by How Much She Puts Out - This is the post that first got my attention. When I read it, I saw a loving husband. What's not fabulous about that? But it's not all touchy feely hearts and smiles....

How Not to Be a Pussy - This post has five great tips on how to be a man in your marriage. Memorize them, guys.

Take Responsibility for Your Sex Life - Suggestions that the author (Ponyboy) read on another blog that have worked for him.

Alpha - Beta Balance - If you read the male "game" blogs, you read a lot about alpha, alpha, alpha, but these guys just don't get that it's not all about being Alpha. There's a time and place for it, of course, but all alpha and no beta makes a guy who has sex with his hand more than with any woman.  Ponyboy gets it.

Brain and Cock Are Not Connected, Brain and Pussy Are - This has to be one of my favorite blog post titles of all time. And it's true.

Some really good blogs have been shut down recently.  While those favorites can never be replaced, it's nice to know that we can turn to some new talent to help us fill the void.

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Oh!  While you're reading Marriage in the Bedroom, don't forget to comment, follow, etc.  Introduce yourself and make yourself at home. :-)

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Random Thoughts on a Sunday Afternoon

It seems like I get lots of random thoughts on Sunday afternoons. Lucky for you (or unlucky maybe), I have no problem sharing them.

  • I was struck yesterday by Luna Moon's post The Clash. She referenced the cheater's big dilemma - stay and cheat? Or leave? I know it's a dilemma that many folks struggle with. And it reminded me of some comments I made recently on the Married Man Sex Life blog. It's not a dilemma for me.  I've known since I married my husband that I would never leave him. I've learned through folks who have responded to my comments on that blog and from some of the trolls here that many folks just don't understand that having sex with someone else does not mean you don't love and care about your spouse. Some people just can't see beyond their own reality.
  • Speaking of trolls, I really wish they would engage in conversation rather than just sniping and leaving sarcastic comments. They should know that we welcome the debate, but they seem to just want to judge rather than discuss anything.  That's really too bad.
  • I got a phone call this morning (actually 10 phone calls) from a 25 year old young man who wouldn't identify himself.  He said he likes fucking older married women, and lots of other things that I won't share here.  He wouldn't say how he got my number or how he knows me. When I wasn't receptive to his offer, he kept calling, and calling, and calling.  At Daunt's suggestion, I forwarded my phone to the local police department for a little while. After I stopped the forwarding, the calls didn't start up again. I hope he got the message that I am not afraid to involve the police. I suppose that's a message I want to share with all my readers, too. Be nice. Most of you are wonderful.  For the very few who are not, just be nice. Okay?
  • The Nicolas Cage skit on Saturday Night Live last night was hilarious! I guess SNL may be getting good again.  That would be nice.
  • I just realized that I remember season 1 of SNL. Now I feel old.
  • Knitting a blanket just takes too long. It will be summer time before I finish the project I'm working on at the pace I'm going.
  • OMG.  I remember season 1 of SNL  and I'm knitting a blanket. {sigh} Now I feel really old. 
  • There's a new blog I'm really enjoying - Marriage in the Bedroom I'll be writing a whole post to tell you why, but if you want a preview, head over there now.  As of today, the most recent post is Brain and Cock are Not Connected, Brain and Pussy Are. The author (Ponyboy) has some great insight.  Add it to your follow list.
  • I just watched a commercial about a devise that you wear around your midsection.  I guess t send electric impulses to your abs and is supposed to give you a six pack without having to do any crunches. Wow! Who are the people who buy that sort of crap...uh...stuff?
  • I miss JJ.  That's more of a constant thought than a random one, but I'm sharing it anyway.