Mistress Day - A Time for Extra Caution

Valentine's Day is just around the corner, so this is a good time to start talking about Mistress Day.  Mistress Day is traditionally celebrated on February 13th, the day before Valentine's Day because prowlers need to spend Valentine's Day with their spouses. I say "traditionally" but there really isn't much about it that is traditional, except for the fact that it has become so common that just about everyone knows about it.  That makes it a red flag for prowlers.

Why?

Because if you know that February 13th is Mistress Day, your wife or husband may know, too, and will be watching you especially closely to make sure that your time is accounted for on that day. My suggestion is to discuss it with your lover and pick another day to celebrate, say the 12th or 15th, or even something the following week. You need to discuss it because if you just assume that you'll celebrate it the following week, your Mistress may think you forgot about it, and what does that mean for you? It means there will be another woman not having sex with you.

I'll write a post specifically on tips for Mistress Day gifts, but you should start thinking about it now so you aren't doing anything at the last minute.  Waiting 'til the last minute will likely mean that you'll be in a hurry and that's when we make mistakes. Take the time to make a plan and execute it carefully, and everything should be just fine.

I'll share one tip with you now of what not to do.  Don't ignore it. In my Valentine's Day post last year I shared with you how my special someone at the time told me all about what he did to make Valentine's Day special for his wife, and then he did nothing for me.  Nothing.  Nada. Don't misunderstand.  Listening to the what he did for his wife was fine.  It was very sweet and that didn't bother me a bit. The part that bothered me was being completely taken for granted. Those of you who know me well know that it doesn't take much to make me happy. That's what made it sting all the more. A minimum of effort is all that would have been required.

The irony is that Valentine's Day and Mistress Day are all about letting your wife and lover know that you do not take them for granted, that you appreciate them, and in many cases, that you love them.

So, there are two messages of caution here.  First, be very careful about how you celebrate Mistress Day. Your spouse may be watching you.  Second, be careful not to ignore it with your lover.  Make sure you let her know that you appreciate her.