I think it's safe to say that it's going well. Very well.
Here's why:
1) Really nice man whose company I genuinely enjoy.
2) Intelligent, funny, creative guy.
3) Fan-fucking-tastic sex.
4) Let me repeat that sentiment. The sex is oh my god great!
5) Local, with a place to play and a flexible schedule
I just can't get enough of him. It has been a l-o-n-g time since I felt that. That desire for him, the craving his touch - those have taken me a bit by surprise. I was hoping for a decent guy and a moderate level of sexual compatibility. I guess I was keeping my expectations in check because I know what's out there. I know the odds of finding a JJ are very slim. Hoping for that is just a recipe for disappointment. Right? So I was prepared to settle for ok, good enough. I just wasn't prepared for T.
I wasn't prepared for the way he kisses me. I wasn't prepared for his passion. I wasn't prepared for how quickly he learned just what I like and need. I wasn't prepared for the experience of his advanced oral skills.
I didn't expect to like him so much.
But I do and I'm very comfortable with that. I think he is, too.
I asked him why he was shopping for a married woman on AM. He's single, after all. His answer was that he figured a married woman would have a life and responsibilities of her own and wouldn't want so much of his time. That makes sense. I want more of his time (because he has made me an oral sex addict), but I know that I have a full life and so does he. Coming together for a little shelter from life's storms once or twice a week is perfect.
In the fine tradition of Ryan Beaumont, I thought I'd share a cheesy song that expresses my feelings about T at this point. Yesterday I heard the news that Captain and Tennille are divorcing after 39 years of marriage. I hate to admit this, but I didn't even know they were still alive. Apparently, they are, and they are going their separate ways. As an aside, I'd really like someone to explain to me sometime what can be so bad that you can't work it out after 39 years of marriage. Anyway, in recognition of their long marriage I thought I'd share one of their songs, and it really does remind me about my feelings for T.
By the way, what were you doing in 1979? I was a freshman in high school. I was slutty then, too. I just didn't want anyone to know it.
7 comments:
OK Kat I kinda get why you are using THAT Captain and Tennille song for this post. But I have to say I'm a bit insulted that you would connect me to that song. For the love of God surely you would know that if you are going to mention me and Captain and Tennille in the same sentence you must use the song Muskrat Love! :)
So happy you have found someone to match so well. You are very lucky. I think this song fits the theme better though........https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CxVKtNkQAtw&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Let's see...1979...I was also a freshman in high school.
Sounds like you are having a blast with this new guy. Are you being careful? That's a lot of contact with him and I thought your husband tracked you to a degree?
Ryan, I *knew* I'd get your attention with Captain & Tennille. LOL
loat, Ok, you made me chuckle. :-) And yes, I do consider myself fortunate.
Mike, you're right about Hubby monitoring and tracking me closely. Recently, though, he became obsessed with something else and he's less concerned with what I'm doing. You make a good point, though,that I need to keep my wits about me and be careful. Thanks for the reminder.
Oh, I forgot to say what I was doing in '79. I was in 6th grade, had my first girl-friend and lived for sports year-round (but mostly basketball, baseball, and swimming). This may have been a year later but I remember us guys playing basketball all day and blasting Prince and the Gap Band loudly on our boom boxes. We were so cool!
Kat,
I’m so happy for you and T. Your exciting posts about T have me even more grateful for my lover. I can so relate to your delight with T. It is wonderful, isn’t it? I had not had sex for 15 years….and then (on AM) I met my southern attorney…..a true gentleman…..handsome, charismatic, smart, kind, thoughtful, giving, a dominate, take charge kind of guy……with a HUGE cock…..kisses that rock my world……oral skills that send shockwaves through my body…the first man I’ve ever had anal with (I love it)……Every time I’m with my dashing attorney….I just want him more….Congratulations on finding your wonderful lover T…..I share your joy!
BTW: Still in Junior High in 1979…..wondering what sex would be like!
You and I were in the same graduating class ;) I was a freshman in high school in 79' as well, thanking God I didn't go to the all-girl high school I was slated to attend and instead went to the newly co-ed Jesuit school in the city. I *still* remember the first time I set my eyes on Geoff Fry.
Thrilled that you didn't cancel on T initially, look at the amazing connection you have. It is amazing to find a generous lover, especially one that is truly orally gifted. I admit to some envy that T is local enough to you to be able to have playtime 2-3 times a week! My lover is a long distance one but he is the epitome of good, giving, game and the distance doesn't matter as much when we connect virtually. But to the point of Mike above, be careful. Whilst hubby is currently distracted, his focus always seems to come back to you and your whereabouts. I'd hate to see you caged again. As always, thanks for sharing!
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