Yes, I know it's a fantasy held by many, and I know that any self respecting naughty Kat should be able to do it and enjoy it, but in the spirit of complete disclosure and honesty I have to admit that I suck at 69. For the less experienced among you, I am referring to mutual oral satisfaction.
It's not that I don't want to be good at it, or that I'm not good at giving oral (because I have been told that I give a world class BJ). The problem is my ADD. Well, at least I think that's what the problem is. By ADD I mean Attention Deficit Disorder. I have come to believe that I have a little touch of ADD and that it significantly interferes with my ability to participate in this particular sexual activity.
Here is the specific problem:
If someone is doing a nice job of stimulating me orally "down there," that's where my focus goes. Then there's a cock in my mouth, and that's where my focus goes. I can hang with it for awhile, but eventually one of two things happens: 1) I get totally into the pleasure "down there" and I completely lose focus with what I'm doing with my mouth (yes, I have even forgotten totally, only to realize suddenly, "Oh my! There's a cock in my mouth!); or 2) I manage to keep my focus on the lovely toy in my mouth, much to my partner's satisfaction, and I end up ignoring what's going on "down there." Sometimes, that ignoring becomes annoyance ("I wish he would just stop that for a moment so I can finish up with this lollipop.").
It's really quite sad. When a partner excitedly moves into one of the well-known 69 positions, I am faced with a dilemma. Should I be honest and say, "I really don't think you want to do that" or should I just go for it and risk making one or both of us frustrated?
I've had partners say that I just need more practice. Honey, I could teach the class. It's not about practice. It's about my ability to maintain focus when faced with this particular variety of multi-tasking.
However, I am an open-minded Kat. So, fellow Prowlers, any suggestions? Has anyone else licked this problem (pun intended)?