Friday, October 21, 2011

Where's Dat Pesky Wabbit?

I know I haven't updated you yet on how my negotiations are going with Hubby.  Don't worry.  I will bring you up to speed soon. In the meantime, I wanted to share about my new toy.

In Hubby's effort to spice up our sex life and keep me from prowling (I told him that I would not cheat if he could meet my needs.  If not, I'll go to someone who will -- ok, I was nicer than that, but that was the point I made), he surprised me yesterday with a new toy. I came home from a long day on the road for work, and this little goodie was waiting for me under my pillow.

It's a cute rabbit, isn't it? The first thing I did was try to turn it on, but it didn't work.  That's when I realized that it didn't have any batteries.

Hubby:  Don't worry, I have batteries.

He handed me a pack of AAA batteries.  I opened the pack and started trying to insert them (in the vibrator, not in me).  They were too small.

Kat: Honey, these batteries are not the right size.  It looks like we need AA.

Hubby:  But it says right on the package (grabbing and starting to read) "Takes three AA batteries."  Damn.

Kat: Uh huh.  Do we have any AAs?

It was 10:30 at night.  If we didn't have any, I was sure the little rabbit wouldn't be shuddering with joy tonight.

Hubby: (reaching for his jeans) If we don't, I'll go to the store right now!

I smiled.  My. my, my.  That's a level of enthusiasm I haven't seen for a long time.

Fortunately, because we have kids and all of the toys and gadgets that go along with kids, we have a huge stash of batteries of all sizes. We learned about that the year my oldest couldn't play with his new Hot Wheels track because it took two different sizes of batteries (whose brilliant idea was that?) and we only had one.

Anyway, I inserted the batteries and took a close look at the little guy. Soft, but firm.  It has a gel-like shaft with some pearls that rotate at the base. There are two power controls - one for the rotation of the shaft (it kind of wiggles slowly in a small circular motion while the pearls go round and round) and another for the vibration of the bunny. The adjustable speed for the vibrating rabbit didn't have much variation between low and high, but those cute little ears did hit just the right spot, so I forgave the manufacturer for the error.

On the backside of the shaft up by the head, there is a little tiny happy face. It's all in the details, isn't it? Who was that little happy face for, I wondered? I pointed it out to Hubby and he laughed.  He wouldn't have noticed it if I hadn't pointed it out.  He never was into details.

After we went through our nightly routine of making sure the kids were asleep, he closed and locked our door and slipped back into bed with me. I poured some lube in his hand (only the good stuff would do for this occasion) and he slid his hand down between my legs, finding my clit quickly, and circling it slowly as the lube dripped from his hand.

He kissed me deeply as he fingered me, which is really new for him.  Hubby is not a kisser, but since the news about my extramarital dalliances, he has become quite the kisser.  I told you he was trying.

I reached for some lube, squeezed some into my hand, and reached for his cock. He was hard already. This is new, too.  It seems that the knowledge that other men are interested in his wife has made him more interested, too.

I stroked him slowly, starting off gently and then tightening my grip. He moaned into our kiss.

I was so focused on our kiss and his cock that I barely noticed that he had withdrawn his hand and was sliding the new toy inside me. He turned on both the undulation and the vibration, and I reached down with my free hand to properly position those little bunny ears. My clit was already hard and sensitive from his touch, and a **ZING** of pleasure shot through me as soon as those little ears hit the right spot. I squealed. He smiled and turned the vibration down, but it didn't change much.

He held the toy in place and sucked on my nipples - first one, then the other - and I continued to stroke him, closing my eyes and enjoying the sensual experience. It was the first time in a long time that I was in bed with my husband and I wasn't thinking about being somewhere else with someone else.  I was completely present in the moment.

It didn't take me long to cum. I stroked him harder as I started shaking and moaning.  His mouth moved from my nipple to my my mouth, so he could kiss me as I screamed. It occurred to me that not only was this erotic, but it also muffled the sound so I wouldn't wake the kids. He's a smart one.

After I was done, he pulled out the vibe, turned it off, got up on his knees, and said, "My turn," with a mischievous grin on his face. I rolled over and got on my knees, then leaned forward onto my forearms, lifting my backside for him. He grabbed my hips and slid his now rock hard cock all the way in with one slow, deep stroke.  We both moaned as he held it there for about 15 seconds. We started moving slowly, together. I pressed back against him as he thrusted forward. Sometimes it's fast and frenzied, but this time was slow all the way through, so we both could feel every sensation, every moment of pleasure.

It didn't take me long to cum again.  As I did, he pushed his cock in even deeper (although I didn't think that was possible) and held it there as I shuddered and moaned. As I was coming down, he started thrusting again - faster and harder now, taking full control of the situation. Within a few seconds, he came, pulling me back onto him and holding me there as he released into me.

We both collapsed on the bed afterwards, neither of us speaking for what seemed like a log time.  Then he reached over, took my hand, and said, "Wow. Where have you been all my life?"

"Right here," I replied. "You just never noticed."

"I'm noticing you now," he whispered as he rolled toward me and started kissing me.

I took his hand and moved it down to my pussy.  He exclaimed, "Again?!"

"Yes," I cooed.  "We have only started...."


Victoria said...

Good for you! Glad your husband is finally waking up, as it were.

And I also have a rabbit vibe...I LOVE IT!!!

Naughty Kitty said...

Congrats Kat! I hope he keeps up the good work!

1manview said...

Ok, I can speak now, lol.. Whew.. Once the taken for granted is put behind you and your spouse see your sexuality as others do, well.. you are now benefiting the rewards...
P.S. Warning, once you wake up a tiger, be ready to constantly feed it...

Naughty Kitty said...

1manview, I hope you are right but I have to say this has not been my experience. I have gone through this over and over with my husband. He is a tiger for a few months then goes back to resting on his laurels.

I don't think it is a "man" thing. It may just be a "couple" thing. Maybe monogomous couples just take eachother for granted over time.

g-spot vibrators said...

I think I'm gonna buy such a vibrator. It's time to renew mine, anyway.

Ethan Lambert said...

I agree, I think it's a "couples" thing. It's why I get irritated at people who've never been in a relationship longer than two or three years who think they've got the secret to everlasting lust.

IMHO, I think sex in general is a gimmicky thing. Sex with a new lover is novel. Experimenting brings something novel to a relationship too. But in monogamy, especially after several years, you hit a point where you have phases of hot passionate sex because of something novel, but like all gimmicks that novelty wears off.

I don't mean that to sound cynical; quite the opposite, some of the most fun I have is figuring out what the new thing will be that brings out the next bout of nymphomania from my wife. But I never feel more despondent then just before I figured it out, either. Especially if your partner isn't inclined to help figure it out... if your partner just assumes that the sex will just eventually work itself out.

I think that's one of the big draws of an open relationship to me... although I wonder if even new partners eventually gets old. One of these days I'm going to figure out the secret to unending, consuming desire though. I'll let you know what it is when I've figured it out :-)

Myli said...

I love my rabbit. I've had one for years! I have the Hitachi Magic Wand now and I love that one a lot too! I'm a big fan of toys. Sounds like your husband is too!